I tend to numb myself out so I don’t have to feel.
And I’ll distract myself so I don’t have to think.
But it’s not enough sometimes.
Sometimes I can still see her lying there, not moving.
I’ll read or watch something online or on TV. I’ll talk with my grandmother. I’ll play a game on my phone. I’ll do anything to occupy my thoughts. But then–BANG! I see the picture in my head as clear as day. I reply the incident over and over and over again.
The vision came in my dreams a few nights after it happened. Since then, I’ll try to do anything to tire myself out so much that I can be so exhausted, it won’t be in my dreams. I’m really anxious during the day anyway, so that helps with the exhaustion. I’m not sleeping well. And we all know that doesn’t help the anxiety. (It’s a blessing and a curse right now.)
I’ve never really been in a situation like this before.
I’m not sure when I’ll start to feel “normal” again.
Do the images start to fade?